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#51 fire_rocket

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Posted 30 November 2010 - 04:00 PM

(((((kat))))) I'm glad you have some answers. :heart:

I'm going to try my hardest to make the memorial but it's not looking too good for me right now. :heart:

#52 Wende

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Posted 30 November 2010 - 04:27 PM

Yea, B, the links have been useful.:heart:

#53 Jersey Thug

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Posted 30 November 2010 - 05:20 PM

I wish I could make this. :(
I have work scheduled stuff in NJ and Philly on Friday and Monday.
I will be there in spirit. <3


if you change your mind, we're heading up after work on Friday and heading home on Sunday. you're welcome to share the ride, of course. :heart:

#54 sarah b.

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Posted 30 November 2010 - 05:41 PM

((katmama and family)) ((anyone else who has found them useful)) I'm glad they have done some folks some good. Having TLE, as well, all this SUDEP stuff is kind of :eek: ... but I believe Julia would want life's party to go on as soon as, and as much as, possible. It's certainly a fine argument for living for the moment, as she did so well. :heart: That tradition will continue. :grin:

#55 busker4freedom

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Posted 30 November 2010 - 05:56 PM

Given the way death took her, it was in the midst of living. sudden-ness is quite a shock for family & friends, but we go on, and as it is said, may she be blessed of memory, consoling us in our loss in a spirit form, as we console those who lose a loved one.

I never got to meet her, yet I feel touched by the sense of humor she added to threads I was involved in...as much as I might like to be at the memorial, it is unlikely. So I will say, I'm with you all in spirit.

Savor the 'visitations' that happen. :heart:

#56 Bob K

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Posted 30 November 2010 - 09:24 PM

Can't wait to see you guys!

#57 Deadshow Dan

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Posted 30 November 2010 - 10:56 PM

two nights approved by this host, for sure

I have been daydreaming about food: we, of course, should have holyguacamole, smarties, cute little lunch plates and lasagna sandwiches and broccoli dishes and whatever croutons and vegan salad dressing recipe I saw this week-end that she had posted. ffta

I am sure whatever shows up will be just fine but thought I would share my daydreams because they made me smile.

Definitely the food should be cute :heart:

#58 insolent cur

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Posted 30 November 2010 - 11:04 PM

i so wish i could make this gathering, but unfortunately i'll be 1500 miles away in nola.

jazzfest in nola was one of the last places i got to hang with julia in 3d, and i'd like to think she'd approve of my trip to the crescent city. many glasses will be raised in her honor and memory. :heart:

#59 cj

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Posted 30 November 2010 - 11:07 PM

I have been daydreaming about food: we, of course, should have holyguacamole, smarties, cute little lunch plates and lasagna sandwiches and broccoli dishes and whatever croutons and vegan salad dressing recipe I saw this week-end that she had posted. ffta


you know they have to be real smarties. want me to hook you up? :D

#60 nancykind

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Posted 30 November 2010 - 11:51 PM

i only have mini smarties and they kinda suck. they must be real ones. :)

#61 Wende

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Posted 01 December 2010 - 12:01 AM

Mini smarties?

I didn't ever know there were different kinds of *smarties*:lol:

#62 cj

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Posted 01 December 2010 - 12:02 AM

Posted Image
straight from patchoulia's blog. :D

#63 Wende

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Posted 01 December 2010 - 12:05 AM

Oh wow! Never knew such a thing. :lol:

Another Julia'ism that taught me something new. ;)

#64 cj

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Posted 01 December 2010 - 12:10 AM

yup. she was all kinds of awesome and wicked smart. :jamguy:

#65 nancykind

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Posted 01 December 2010 - 12:27 AM

i'll bring some minis if i can find them. i'm thinking now i might have tossed them. the minis are weird, like little drops of chocolate covered in the candy coating. sometimes there's more coating than chocolate. they're weird.

#66 mamapajama

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Posted 01 December 2010 - 01:01 AM

Carla, if you could, that would be swell. :)

My daughter found them in a Saratoga on a shopping trip last month and texted me a photo, all excited. I would just go look for them there but time is an issue.

#67 mamapajama

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Posted 01 December 2010 - 01:02 AM

and cur, I think so too

#68 sarah b.

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Posted 01 December 2010 - 01:08 AM

carla, please bring you and smarties. :lol: :heart:

#69 cj

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Posted 01 December 2010 - 01:09 AM

i would love to bring me, but i think it will have to be just smarties. :undecided:

#70 sarah b.

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Posted 01 December 2010 - 01:26 AM

:spirits with safety gear: :heart: I reckon she'll be spending some time in NOLA, Cur. :grin:

#71 Royal

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Posted 01 December 2010 - 01:56 AM

and cur, I think so too


I agree

#72 matty

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Posted 01 December 2010 - 03:11 AM

I might be able to get some smarties too...

Packing for morning flight to Toronto. Had some frequent flyer miles through work travel. :(

#73 mamapajama

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Posted 01 December 2010 - 09:46 AM

safe travels Matty

#74 musicmomma

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Posted 01 December 2010 - 08:54 PM

:heart:

#75 Moose

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Posted 03 December 2010 - 12:14 PM

I really wish I could make it out for this :cry1: I send my best wishes, healing comfort, love and laughter to everyone caught in the vacuum left behind by Julia's tragic departure.
Travel safely everyone, please!
Hang in there boardies.
Much <3

#76 Sunshower

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Posted 03 December 2010 - 03:38 PM

Looks like I will not be able to make this.:cry1: I will be there in spirit tho. Much love to all who will be there. And as Brody said, SAFE travels:heart:

#77 Misha

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Posted 04 December 2010 - 04:31 PM

I'm afraid we won't be able to come. Sadly, my sister-in-law's sister died in her sleep last weekend so there are family issues being delt with.

I wish I could come--I really loved Julia. This is something I'm really sorry I have to miss.:heart:

#78 Drop_o_Rain

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Posted 04 December 2010 - 06:23 PM

Misha...

I would like to do something for Julia's birthday in May in Rochester.

#79 Misha

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Posted 05 December 2010 - 01:57 PM

Misha...

I would like to do something for Julia's birthday in May in Rochester.


That would be wonderful!

#80 Jersey Thug

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Posted 05 December 2010 - 03:13 PM

i'm so sorry for your loss, Mary :heart:

all who cannot make it next weekend WILL be there in spirit, but know that you will be missed.

#81 TEO

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Posted 05 December 2010 - 10:51 PM

i'm so sorry for your loss, Mary :heart:

all who cannot make it next weekend WILL be there in spirit, but know that you will be missed.


This. :heart:

#82 August West

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Posted 06 December 2010 - 01:46 AM

will be there with something :heart:

#83 Wende

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Posted 06 December 2010 - 02:08 AM

will be there with something :heart:


You should get Dan and Nacole to come up with you. :heart:

#84 melissa.phish

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Posted 07 December 2010 - 09:37 PM

I am incredibly sad to say that I will be unable to attend.

My heart will be there with you all.

#85 Wende

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Posted 07 December 2010 - 10:13 PM

Who wants to do dinner Friday?

I'm all about the dinner these days.:funny1:

#86 TEO

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Posted 07 December 2010 - 10:43 PM

Possibly, will have to coordinate. What/where do you have in mind?

#87 motti

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Posted 07 December 2010 - 11:31 PM

im heading up friday :-)
anyone need a ride from north jersey or along the way?

#88 soulshiny

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Posted 07 December 2010 - 11:42 PM

I hope to make it up saturday with evan for a little while. :rose:

#89 Erinisme

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Posted 07 December 2010 - 11:43 PM

I'm down for dinner on Friday!

#90 jamiebear

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Posted 07 December 2010 - 11:59 PM

you guys rock
so special to have her look down at this gathering of people who love her
so awesome you guys are
speak like yoda i do
((((((julia)))))):heart:

#91 mamapajama

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Posted 08 December 2010 - 02:38 AM

I was just looking at pictures of Evan from Chalk for Peace, Kelly. :) It will be nice to see you both. See you Friday Motti.

#92 matty

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Posted 08 December 2010 - 03:36 AM

Anyone need a ride from Boston or somewhere in between?

#93 matty

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Posted 08 December 2010 - 03:37 AM

Oh, and I won't be able to make it Friday. :(

#94 mamapajama

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Posted 09 December 2010 - 01:22 AM

still plenty of room here for sitting around the house on Sat. afternoon or sleeping over Friday and/or Saturday

#95 Wende

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Posted 09 December 2010 - 11:36 AM

So, dinner. Something in Saratoga. There are so many places. The Parting Glass comes to mind. They have some yummy tavern food and lots of beers for those who like beer.

#96 Wende

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Posted 09 December 2010 - 05:25 PM

The Stadium Cafe' on Broadway in Saratoga.....7:00-7:30ish.

Here is a menu. THey have REALLY amazing food. http://www.thestadiu...-cafe-menu.html

You can walk to and from the Venue. It's 2 blocks down.

#97 Jersey Thug

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Posted 09 December 2010 - 05:53 PM

is this for Friday? if so we won't be in town early enough to make dinner, but yum, looks great!

#98 Wende

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Posted 09 December 2010 - 05:56 PM

see you at the show though, :dance:right?

#99 Jersey Thug

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Posted 09 December 2010 - 06:36 PM

wouldn't miss it!!! :) we should be there by 11pm or so, depending on traffic and how quickly we can get on the road tomorrow night.

#100 TEO

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Posted 09 December 2010 - 07:34 PM

Suspicious of menus without prices. Wende, have you been there?