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We've lost a ray of sunshine. RIP Patchoulia


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#101 nikkiblue

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:09 PM

:cry1: Me and Augie were just talking about how much we liked her last night... He made a canadian joke for her in one of these threads and we brought up her boobies... :heart:
This is just so sad...I'm shocked.
Rest in Peace Julia. You will be truly missed.

#102 reveur

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:09 PM

never got to meet her but I gather we would've gotten along famously.

so sorry for those of you who knew her :heart:

#103 SunshineDrummer

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:10 PM

I never had the pleasure to meet her, I did always read whatever she posted because of her great sense of humor in here, this place or world will not be the same without her. Sorry to all her friends and family :heart:


I know others have echoed this, but I have to as well. Wish I had a chance to meet her. She struck me as an amazing person. I'm glad I got to know her a little from around here and I always loved her sense of humor. :heart:

#104 Deadshow Dan

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:10 PM

Devastating. Typing through the tears.
Just a couple of hours ago I was picking up a Vegan Chocolate Cake for the holiday @ Greenstar. They always make me think of her. I was wondering when I'd be seeing her again.
RIP Broccoli Girl :heart:

#105 williscat2000

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:11 PM

:heart:

#106 B. Diddy

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:13 PM

I don't even know where to begin. The world has lost a very special soul, someone who didn't have an easy life, but persevered, and found love and happiness. Though we weren't speaking the last couple years, I never, ever imagined we wouldn't get the chance to again. I'm in shock.

I can't even fathom what Brian is going though. My heart and all my love goes out to him, and I hope that he knows that I was always happy to know that he and Julia found happiness together; it's the only thing I ever wanted for her, to be happy.

So many memories are flying though my head right now. Little moments, so many wonderful weekends together, the time we spent with our friends from the board. She was a wonderful person, and speaking of her in the past tense feels intensely wrong. :(

I'm so very sorry your life was cut short, Julesy.

My heart goes out to everyone who knew her, and loved her, and enjoyed her wit, her friendship, and her love of life.

Rest in peace, Julia. You were one hell of a woman. They broke the mold. :heart:

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#107 kate11

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:14 PM

Ohmy...

#108 Ravn

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:15 PM

OMG, I am just in shock and bawling

I have an open scrabble game on fb that she was (as always) kicking my ass at

((((((((((Julia)))))))))) :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:

#109 Sunshower

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:16 PM

Such a wonderful wit! I was just busting her chops about how jealous I was that she got all three nights to Phish. I just cannot believe this!:cry1:

#110 jam kids on their vespas

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:21 PM

When I saw the title of this thread I did not believe for a minute that it was true. If you are saddened by this the way that I am then just know that Julia's spirit is still alive in every single one of us.

#111 Beany

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:23 PM

What a shock. So sad, she was such a fun, sweet soul.

#112 Ravn

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:23 PM

Cassie is going to try to call Thuggie

#113 BHB

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:24 PM

so sad. ugh. horrible. :heart::heart::heart:

#114 TigerRose

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:24 PM

How did this happen? :heart:

#115 Slave Self Promoted

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:25 PM

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i love the caption from her fb page as well.

What's even funnier is that before Photoshop, that was a Hitler doll, instead of a Jon doll...



#116 Deadshow Dan

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:25 PM

:heart:

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#117 TheDHJ

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:26 PM

Cassie is going to try to call Thuggie


Thanks, I wanted her to hear it from a friend...thanks Peg.

#118 Ravn

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:28 PM

No problem, that was the reason I called Cassie, so she wouldn't see it on the boards or fb.

#119 Count P-Funk

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:32 PM

Like so many others, I really don't know what to say.
She was one of the funniest people I've ever met. She will be missed.

#120 TheDHJ

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:33 PM

i love the caption from her fb page as well.


That's classic. :rotf:

#121 Ginger Snap

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:34 PM

Wow. I am so sorry for all of you. For all of her friends and family. I never got to meet her in real life, but it's an easy observation that she was a force. This is so sad. :heart::heart::heart:

#122 mrs.peloquin

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:36 PM

Rob and I both wanted to express our shock and sadness at this terrible news.
:heart::heart::heart: RIP Julia:heart::heart::heart:

We will miss you - Canadian girls DO kick ass!

Our thoughts and love goes out to her friends and family.

#123 Kuzsin

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:37 PM

.....................:heart:

#124 DancingBearly

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:37 PM

:cry1::heart: So sad. Love and healing to her family.

#125 freerange

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:37 PM

awesome pic Dan
fun night that one
with Julia in attendance how could it not be though

#126 u.s.blues

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:39 PM

:heart:

#127 TheJackNJ

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:40 PM

only knew her from reading her posts here.....

but my heart goes out to those who knew her personally.....im very sorry for your loss

was she very young?

#128 Moose

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:42 PM

Oh man. I always had hoped to cross paths with her. She seemed to have the greatest spirit razor sharp intellect and an azwesome sense of humor. Much love to the boardies and her family and friends reeling from her loss. This place will be very different in her absence. Hang on to that bucking bronco we call life friends and cherish every wild moment because you never know when your 8 seconds are up.

<3 <3 <3

#129 Royal

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:43 PM

Our Community has lost one of its best and brightest members today. :cry1:

#130 georgi

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:44 PM

Words can not explain how saddened I am by this... :cry:

She gave me lots of good advice over the years, and never failed to make me laugh. I am glad I got to meet her and hang out with her a few times. I will miss her immensely.

RIP, my dear friend.

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#131 Bob K

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:46 PM

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This still makes me laugh. Hope it does the same for you.



this.

#132 georgi

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:48 PM

She wrote this on my profile. :(

Dear Mentee,

"Rich & I's" is deplorable grammar. The correct phraseology would be "Rich's & my".

You're welcome. (And Happy Richiversary!)

Love,
Your Mentor, the Queen of the Bitches

#133 Bob K

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:50 PM

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:(

#134 insolent cur

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:50 PM

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#135 TakeAStepBack

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:51 PM

Soo terrible. All of my love to her friends and family. Life is soo short....

#136 motti

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:52 PM

tonight i will smile and dance and laugh and raise a glass...
:heart:

#137 china cat

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:53 PM

wow, really tragic.

:heart::heart:

#138 Deadshow Dan

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:53 PM

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Last time I saw her, I think
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#139 Tooozday

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Posted 24 November 2010 - 11:57 PM

:heart::heart::heart: for friends and family

#140 mario

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Posted 25 November 2010 - 12:02 AM

Britt called me a little while ago and gave me the news. Until I got home, saw all the posts on Facebook, then came here and read this thread, I think I can only describe my state as numb.

There was a part of me that just wouldn't accept that we live in a universe that would let an amazing person with that rare balance of humor, wit, and compassion go away.

Right now I am distraught. Julia was such a bright light in the world, and it is truly unfair that she was taken from us.

I really don't know if I can find more words at the moment through the tears. I just want to express my deepest condolences to Brian, Julia's family, and of course all of you.

#141 bugwhipper

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Posted 25 November 2010 - 12:03 AM

wow I don't know what to say

all I know is she made the best guacamole I ever had.

our community has lost one of it's best. I will miss you Julia.

:heart::heart::heart::heart::heart::heart:

#142 seany

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Posted 25 November 2010 - 12:04 AM

Well said, Mario :heart:

#143 cybertentbob

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Posted 25 November 2010 - 12:07 AM

I just saw Dan posted this...Im stunned...:heart:

#144 lost-in-boston

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Posted 25 November 2010 - 12:07 AM

:heart:
rare woman indeed....
My heart is so heavy :undecided:


#145 jagermonster

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Posted 25 November 2010 - 12:10 AM

Oh my goodness, what a loss to the world. :heart:

#146 Occifer Boland

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Posted 25 November 2010 - 12:18 AM

i really am at a loss for words.. this really f'n sucks.. i've lost so many family members along the way.. and i've seen those on here that i have passed on, but i didn't know them.. but this one, i knew.. yes, it's been years since i have seen her.. but those times, years ago, just being in her presence and hearing the jokes.. and just observing the natural essence of person she was.. i hate myself for not keeping in touch. my deepest thoughts and love to family and friends.. :heart::heart::heart:

#147 Cheezdude

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Posted 25 November 2010 - 12:19 AM

Oh no! Not another one! My deepest condolences to friends and family. It is true, life is short.
And very bittersweet. Cherish the memories, and life itself, as much as you can. :sad:
(((((((R.I.P. Julia)))))))

#148 mylightning2

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Posted 25 November 2010 - 12:20 AM

Sorry to read this news. I don't know Julia, except from on here, all the time. My condolences to all y'all that were close with her. My heart goes out to all of you.:heart:

#149 unbroken_chain

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Posted 25 November 2010 - 12:24 AM

:cry:

Miss Julia, you were amongst my long time faves from the boards....I feel like I've known you forever... even though we've never met...

your sense of humour was unique, spot on, and that of a kindred spirit...

I am devastated by this news, truly.

Love,
Chris :heart:

#150 musicfan

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Posted 25 November 2010 - 12:33 AM

I never met her and I sit here with water running down my face... May the fore winds blow you safely home... :cry1: