Posted 04 October 2009 - 01:06 AM
snuggling with kev and jeremy last winter.
Posted 04 October 2009 - 01:16 AM
licking water off himself after being accidentally squirted by two maniacal three year olds with squirters. quinn is laughing her butt off, telling jeremy that they squirted bj.
Posted 04 October 2009 - 01:12 PM
Kitty was 18 and we just had to make the decision to let her go peacefully back in August. It was so hard. You are a great mommy, cj, you will know. For now, enjoy your moments. xoxoxoxo
What a great life he has had... which other cat in North America has had a castle designed for him and has posted on this board all in the same weekend!
Posted 04 October 2009 - 04:30 PM
Posted 05 October 2009 - 04:15 PM
He is so famous!
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When we change brands, our kitties get mad and do that!
Posted 04 January 2010 - 01:24 AM
and he stays primarily in one place, on a blanket in front of a heat duct. he is up and about at snack times and meal times, but not much.
i've known for a while logically that yes, bj is going to either die or have to be put down soon. i had my first emotional realization that the time is very near tonight when i had to help him up and when kevin massaged his hips later, to help them get going again after sitting. which he does very strangely now. i don't think he's in pain, he's not crying or flinching when he's touched. he still purrs when you touch him.
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Posted 11 January 2011 - 02:35 PM
Love & comfort
May happy memories bring smiles to your heart that quickly makes the sadness fade.
Posted 11 January 2011 - 10:36 PM
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Posted 20 February 2011 - 01:20 AM
i still can barely think of the day and the following days. i don't want to because it is so raw. so many emotions, and guilt over the past few years -- i was so allergic to him after i had jeremy that i could barely touch him, and there were times when i had to gate our room so he wouldn't sleep on our bed. *sigh*
we still see him everywhere -- everything has the capability of looking like beej, a sweater left on the couch, or a pillow on the floor in front of the heater (jeremy leaves them there a lot, he sits there like bj did.) and we still hear him, a creak on the stairs that sounds like him walking down them. all of my neural pathways in this house involve him.
i watched him walk into our living room at the time of his death.
gah. i miss him. so much that if i think of it too closely i can't breathe.
Posted 20 February 2011 - 01:47 AM
I now have two cats - 14 yo and 8 yo. Delia, the oldest, is Siamese and pretty healthy, but showing her age. It is going to be a horrible day when she eventually passes. The younger cat, Cassady, is a very needy cat and loves her so much, as do I. I can't imagine them both not piling on me at every opportunity.