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#1 Lostsailr

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 04:08 AM

Form grade 5 - our late 20's... the best friend I ever had.
Love to his family...
Damn getting old sucks, and cancer is worse than that!
Peace, Tryg





#2 sums

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 04:11 AM

i'm really sorry. cancer does suck :heart:

#3 TheDHJ

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 04:13 AM

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#4 Jabadoodle

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 04:13 AM

Loosing friends sucks worse than just about anything.

Very sorry for your loss; Very grateful for the friends & family we have.

#5 deadheadskier

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 04:19 AM

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#6 Lostsailr

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 04:22 AM

Even though time had kept us in pretty separate lives, I can't deny I became the person I am through his friendship.
Reach out to an old friend today :heart:

#7 seany

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 04:42 AM

Sorry for your loss :heart: :sad:

#8 sarah b.

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 04:46 AM

I'm sorry, man. <3

#9 In A Silent Way

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 05:00 AM

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#10 Feesh

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 05:23 AM

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#11 Mutant

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 07:07 AM

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#12 manzanita stark

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 07:30 AM

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#13 StoneKid

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 07:34 AM

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#14 Royal

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 08:15 AM

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so sorry

#15 gregoir

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 12:20 PM

Sorry to hear Duncan :heart:

#16 Lazy Lightning

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 12:24 PM

I'm sorry for your loss, peace and love to all who are affected by Tryg's passing. :heart:

#17 Tim the Beek

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 12:27 PM

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#18 insolent cur

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 12:31 PM

you have my sincere condolences, duncan. :heart:

#19 mamapajama

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 12:40 PM

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#20 Karen

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 12:59 PM

RIP :heart:

#21 Roasted and Toasted

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 01:05 PM

Sorry for your loss Duncan:heart:

#22 moed_over

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 01:12 PM

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#23 TEO

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 01:24 PM

Love & Light :heart:

Your friend will always be alive in your heart. :heart:

#24 Slave Self Promoted

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 01:38 PM

i'm so sorry for your loss. :heart:

cancer is a fucking asshole

#25 china cat

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 01:38 PM

very sorry, LS

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#26 nancykind

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 02:09 PM

my condolences Larry :heart: :heart:

#27 georgi

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 02:57 PM

Sorry for your loss. :heart:

Fuck cancer. :ravn:

#28 Joker

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 03:08 PM

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#29 unbroken_chain

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 03:15 PM

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#30 Mind Left Body

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 03:37 PM

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#31 MeOmYo

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 03:37 PM

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#32 tyedyedee

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 06:34 PM

Reach out to an old friend today :heart:

so sorry for your loss...:sad:

thank you again for the advice
i am going to reach out to a couple old friends today :heart:

#33 Ravn

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 06:37 PM

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#34 GoPlastic

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 06:37 PM

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#35 Stanimal

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 06:41 PM

My deepest sympathy to you, and all those who'll miss him

#36 KittyRocks

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 07:06 PM

im so sorry :heart:

#37 KittyRocks

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 07:07 PM

The Rose Still Grows Beyond The Wall

Near a shady wall a rose once grew,
Budded and blossomed in God's free light:
Watered and fed by morning dew,
Shedding its sweetness day and night.
As it grew and blossomed fair and tall,
Slowly rising to loftier height,
It came to a crevice in the wall,
Through which there shone a beam of light.
Onward it crept with added strength
With never a thought of fear or pride,
It followed the light through the crevice length,
And unfolded itself on the other side.
The light, the dew, the broadening view
Were found the same as they were before.
And it lost itself in beauties new.
Breathing its fragrance more and more.
Shall claim of death cause us to grieve,
And make our courage faint or fall?
Nay, let us faith and hope receive,
The rose still grows beyond the wall.
Scattering fragrance far and wide,
Just as it did in days of yore.
Just as it did on the other side,
Just as it will forevermore.

#38 August West

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 09:46 PM

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#39 vinandtonic

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 11:01 PM

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#40 Lostsailr

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 11:19 PM

You folks are beautiful. Thank you.
This sad event has helped me reconnect with another friend today who's family loss is off the charts. Hopefully a drive across Mass together will cement closer communications with him. We certainly have enough hilaroius stories to recall to keep the conversation lively and fight the loss with laughter.

I have such an aversion to phones (actual voice communication oddly enough) that I just loose touch too easily. Must set a goal to overcome this... and



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#41 fahmadug

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 11:43 PM

:heart: sorry

#42 pixiebug

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 11:45 PM

:heart: I'm so sorry for your loss...

#43 foo

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Posted 13 December 2011 - 11:49 PM

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#44 DJ Easy Wind

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Posted 14 December 2011 - 05:28 AM

Very sorry to hear, LostSailr...:heart:

#45 williscat2000

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Posted 14 December 2011 - 04:16 PM

that sucks, sorry:cry1:

#46 Joe

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Posted 14 December 2011 - 05:05 PM

I'm sorry to hear about you loosing your friend. I know how you feel oh to well. I lost my best friend from all the way back in grade school this past June. He passed away at the age of 29.