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#1 midnight

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Posted 11 April 2009 - 12:36 AM

there is a family close to mine..they have 2 boys...the younger is autistic..the older has depression..older son injures the younger, then feels bad about it. So he jumps out of his moms car while she is cruising down the highway....he lost most of his face and has been on life support for two weeks. He just came out of it and spoke for the first time. Not sure if I'm even happy he's still alive , it's the suckiest feeling. If the docs can't figure out how to replace the sinus cavities he no longer has, he could die from the first major germ he encounters that travels to his brain... if some healing and sanity vibes could go out to the Taylor family in CT , that'd be nice. Thanks.

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#2 Creekie

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Posted 11 April 2009 - 01:02 AM

oh my> dont even know what to say.:heart::heart::heart:

#3 Mr_Pat

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Posted 11 April 2009 - 03:40 AM

So awful...

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#4 TEO

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Posted 11 April 2009 - 04:00 AM

Love, strength, courage, Compassion, healing :heart:

#5 midnight

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Posted 11 April 2009 - 04:35 AM

thanks for the support , and for having a place here to vent...I have had a need to speak about this, but I've bummed out the few close people to me that I can speak with candidly...it's so intense, it's hard to know how to be supportive of the family..lots of shock and disbelief, and colliding feelings of ...feelings. Aside from making meals and helping with domestic stuff...

#6 mountain mama

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Posted 11 April 2009 - 02:27 PM

:heart: wow, vibes and strength sent your way...

#7 KrisNYG

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Posted 11 April 2009 - 05:19 PM

Tons of love, support and strength vibes headed your way.
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#8 TEO

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Posted 11 April 2009 - 07:29 PM

midnight, you sound like an awesome friend. :heart:

Keep love & compassion in your heart, it beats anger, hurt, guilt...any day, any time.

#9 nancykind

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Posted 12 April 2009 - 12:18 PM

healing vibes and strength to all :heart:

#10 RedSquirrel

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Posted 12 April 2009 - 08:53 PM

Wow, so sad....sending strength and love :heart:

#11 Hoop79d

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Posted 14 April 2009 - 06:56 PM

You've got at least one full blooded piney pullin for em out here!

#12 musicmomma

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Posted 14 April 2009 - 07:45 PM

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#13 sarah b.

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Posted 14 April 2009 - 08:01 PM

What TEO said, and feel free to vent away. It's not easy having feelings about stuff, sometimes, especially when hard times like that are being had. Sounds like you're doing all you can. I'm sure whatever hand you are lending with meals and domestic stuff is appreciated. :heart: (and, welcome to posting.)

#14 little frog

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Posted 15 April 2009 - 08:31 PM

:heart: wow .. so sorry, peace vibes for the taylors and for you

#15 Gwendolyn

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Posted 16 April 2009 - 06:44 PM

:heart::heart::heart:

#16 midnight

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Posted 18 April 2009 - 12:58 AM

thanks for the good vibes...Mikey (the boy thats in the hospital) had some sort of plate attached to his forehead area...so there is reconstruction going on now...his mom is back to work....good for bills and good for distracting...she is a school bus driver, so there is a ready circle of friends to take turns occupying the younger brother...their dad killed someone 2 years ago and is not able to be in the picture... to have so much drama in ones life is akin to rolling the odometer forward by 50k....thankfully there is a strong man in their lives that keeps some stability........I'll keep you posted as the situation evolves. Thanks for the support.

#17 tarapin

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Posted 18 April 2009 - 01:29 AM

GOD SPEED

#18 little frog

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Posted 20 April 2009 - 06:24 PM

thanks for the update .. you are all still in my prayers

#19 jerrylovinhippy

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Posted 21 April 2009 - 09:19 AM

Love and light to you and the Taylor family :heart::heart:

#20 sarah b.

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Posted 01 May 2009 - 04:49 AM

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#21 JamOnIt247

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Posted 11 May 2009 - 02:45 PM

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#22 Terry Bo Berry

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Posted 20 May 2009 - 05:39 PM

:heart: Hoping Mikey is healing.

#23 midnight

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Posted 25 May 2009 - 01:26 AM

Yes , he's still hanging tough...lots of issues....really hoping he can find himself again.

#24 sarah b.

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Posted 30 May 2009 - 01:50 AM

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#25 midnight

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Posted 03 June 2009 - 11:29 PM

he had a second surgery....he has lots of permanent damage...he only knows who his mom is because the doctors told him she was his mother....he'll be institutionalized , needing professional care the rest of his life. There's no good ending . :sad:

#26 Mr_Pat

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Posted 03 June 2009 - 11:31 PM

How awful...

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#27 BoggleKng

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Posted 04 June 2009 - 01:59 AM

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#28 twilight dancer

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Posted 04 June 2009 - 02:12 AM

<3 <3 <3

#29 midnight

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Posted 23 June 2009 - 11:16 PM

well...he's now physically mobile, is remembering friends and family, and might be able to live at home...crazy how the brain can recover...this is great news !...the reconstruction came out very good..glass eye...he will have emotional issues forever , but at least he is functional . So there was some light after all . :))

#30 TEO

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Posted 24 June 2009 - 11:31 PM

Awesome news, all best wishes for continued healing. :heart:

#31 u.s.blues

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Posted 02 July 2009 - 01:58 PM

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#32 Drop_o_Rain

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Posted 11 July 2009 - 11:50 AM

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I am glad there is some hope when you thought there was none!
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#33 PeaceDude17

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Posted 11 July 2009 - 12:39 PM

I KNOW that this boy will grow up VERY strong
and this whole situation will only make him stronger!
Hopefully he will learn that life can be amazing at times
and I know that if you have a chance to talk to him
You'll put some loving vibes in his heart. :)

#34 Mr_Pat

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Posted 12 July 2009 - 03:50 AM

well...he's now physically mobile, is remembering friends and family, and might be able to live at home...crazy how the brain can recover...this is great news !...the reconstruction came out very good..glass eye...he will have emotional issues forever , but at least he is functional . So there was some light after all . :))

I am glad things are looking up

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#35 TEO

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Posted 15 July 2009 - 12:26 AM

I KNOW that this boy will grow up VERY strong
and this whole situation will only make him stronger!
Hopefully he will learn that life can be amazing at times
and I know that if you have a chance to talk to him
You'll put some loving vibes in his heart. :)


Amen :heart: