step 8-9 question..
Posted 28 August 2011 - 09:05 PM
last night an ex that i was going to put on my list calls out of the blue and i mean OUT OF LEFT FIELD. I took the opportunity to go right to step 9 with her and apologize and offer to make my amends. i listened to what she had to say and heard what she wanted.
it my mind i heard "Your Higher Power is putting the opportunity in front of you for a reason so do it." is it odd or god and i went with god.
my question is.. Do i still have to put her on the list? ,if yes do i have to apologize again?
i have an awesome sponsor i just havent talked to him yet today and was wondering if this happened to anyone else and what they did?
Posted 02 April 2012 - 03:31 PM
it was put to me "that God sets the stage." in this instance he might have seen her as a detriment to me further down the line ,knew i was strong enough ,ready enough and wiling enough to do it right then and there. list or no list.
Posted 03 April 2012 - 05:32 AM
On a side note...I had to make amends to Woolworth's. When I went in to talk to the manager, he reached under the counter and pulled out a form for 'restitution'. They had a frickin' form for it!!!
Posted 03 April 2012 - 11:02 AM