Ever just felt so lost
Posted 24 May 2011 - 07:33 PM
Not sure what I am asking here. I just needed to vent instead of cry at work. Thanks for listening!
Posted 24 May 2011 - 10:02 PM
(((((((((((forestdancer)))))))))))) It's real hard to be left behind. I think you should definitely reach out and let your friends know what you've been through and that you're ready to become a part of their lives again.
This, as well as remember our lives are all moving and changing, it could be you that has gained a different life perspective that is leaving them behind. Friends come in and out of our lives over time and the deepest friendships seem to be able to weather the outs and pick back up without skipping a beat when the timing is right. Maybe it is time to look towards developing some new friendships based on your new awareness and place in life.
All best in finding the balance that is best for you.
Posted 25 May 2011 - 02:04 AM
Time changes things and friends fall away. It defiantly can suck. Though my situations aren't
too similar to yours, I've been thinking lately about all the close friends I once had that now
we just don't connect like we used to. Anyway, do what's in your heart, but I wouldn't write
a letter if it's going to come out like you're chastising her for not being close anymore. Rather,
reach out to her, maybe even a couple of times if necessary. Try to rebuild a new friendship
with her based on now.
I'm sure you are grateful for what you have, but let me say this anyway. To me, you seem blessed.
You have a beautiful child or two in your life. You have a partner that you love and that loves you
back. You have family that takes care of you when you need it. All of that shows that you are a
good person, which many people are not but are striving to be. You even have a good friend or
two, even if they aren't at hand. That's a lot.
Posted 26 May 2011 - 12:18 PM