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#1 manzanita stark

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Posted 15 February 2013 - 11:55 PM

A week ago I was contacted by the woman I've had the most significant relationship with for the first time in almost 15years.

 

Most likely I have posted in the past this was not an angry, violent separation and was talked through as calmly as we could.

 

She walked in my door last Friday and politely said she was not here to interrupt my life but she was hurt, very hurt.

 

Sherry had a massive heart attack and flat lined long enough to suffer severe brain trauma. It's a miracle she is here and another there is little paralysis, just some minor problems with manipulating her fingers. She now experiences full body petite moll seizures....and of course some other more minor complications. Permanent memory is shattered and fragmented (she doesn't even recognize this city anymore, doesn't know her way around). Temporal not much better.

 

She told me she came to me not remembering but with a feeling I really cared and somehow knowing I could help 'fix" her.

 

I gave her a key to the house yesterday, after all this was her home. We need to get organized but she will be moving back in soon.

 

The improvement in confidence and self esteem in a week is evident. I hope to get her more comfortable socially as time goes on.

 

I told her if the time comes I know a group of people that will accept her as she is and love her and accept her as one of their own and no one would ever call her simple.

 

I love all of you! :heart:



#2 Tabbooma

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Posted 16 February 2013 - 12:02 AM

<3  You're a good man Stark and Tabbooma is proud to call you his friend



#3 fahmadug

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Posted 16 February 2013 - 12:11 AM

<3 I am not on often , but glad I am tonight. Good luck and good vibes!

 



#4 tyedyedee

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Posted 16 February 2013 - 12:20 AM

:heart:



#5 Jwheelz

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Posted 16 February 2013 - 12:41 AM

wow man... you really have a great soul for real <3

 

<3 best wishes to her for a great recovery also



#6 In A Silent Way

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Posted 16 February 2013 - 01:08 AM

:heart:

#7 roo

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Posted 16 February 2013 - 01:49 AM

Whats wrong with being Simple..!? Because we're in a band!! I just kidding I really like this and what your doing. I look forward to updates!

#8 Roasted and Toasted

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Posted 16 February 2013 - 01:58 AM

Stark <3



#9 nikkiblue

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Posted 16 February 2013 - 02:10 AM

wow.. you got something special happenin right here...That wonderful that you are there for her, and she simply 'felt it"

 

 Did you used to live with her? 



#10 TheDHJ

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Posted 16 February 2013 - 02:13 AM

Nice one Earl. I've been meaning to get in touch. Sorry I'm a shitty friend! You've definitely got some good karma coming.

#11 nancykind

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Posted 16 February 2013 - 02:26 AM

beautiful! :)



#12 sarah b.

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Posted 16 February 2013 - 02:26 AM

Typical Stark response. <3 I look forward to meeting her. :)

#13 insolent cur

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Posted 16 February 2013 - 02:38 AM

stark, you are truly a decent and kind man.  good on you!  best wishes for your friend's recovery. :heart:



#14 Karen

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Posted 16 February 2013 - 02:48 AM

:heart:

 

 

May the road rise to meet you both. :)



#15 Royal

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Posted 16 February 2013 - 03:03 AM

:heart:

you're definitely going to heaven Stark. I send my best vibes to you and her.

#16 foo

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Posted 16 February 2013 - 05:24 AM

I love you!!! <3



#17 manzanita stark

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Posted 16 February 2013 - 08:49 AM

Thank you so much.



#18 Lemireacle

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Posted 16 February 2013 - 08:53 AM

Great stuff, stark!! Best wishes for smooth transitioning!! :cheers: heart:



#19 August West

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Posted 16 February 2013 - 10:33 AM

Much Love and Healing :heart:



#20 cassady

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Posted 16 February 2013 - 12:42 PM

<3 <3 <3 <3 <3



#21 Tim the Beek

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Posted 16 February 2013 - 02:16 PM

((((Sherry))))

 

<3 Stark <3



#22 vinandtonic

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Posted 16 February 2013 - 03:53 PM

:heart:



#23 TEO

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Posted 16 February 2013 - 04:01 PM

Love, Light, Strength, Courage, Fortitude & Healing  :heart:



#24 Lostsailr

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Posted 16 February 2013 - 04:10 PM

Ain't THAT a man!

Love and recovery thoughts your way! (and hers)



#25 u.s.blues

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Posted 16 February 2013 - 04:47 PM

:heart:



#26 TheDHJ

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Posted 17 February 2013 - 12:50 AM

Just sent Earl a nice text...hope he's ok.

#27 sums

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Posted 17 February 2013 - 02:31 AM

you rock :) :heart:



#28 manzanita stark

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Posted 17 February 2013 - 03:10 AM

I guess it's safe to say as she said it first. "Hell we could keep Jerry Springer busy for a week. :lol:



#29 TEO

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Posted 17 February 2013 - 03:14 AM

:lol:



#30 FYC (Find Your Cloud)

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Posted 17 February 2013 - 08:23 AM

Well done sir. You've got a heart of gold.

#31 tyedyedee

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Posted 17 February 2013 - 01:33 PM

the heart i posted above was only due to time constraints...i wanted to say more...

you are truly an angel and a very special person

i dont know you all that well except that you are a velcronian and i have always gotten a kind vibe from you :heart:

she is lucky to have you!



#32 Spidergawd

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Posted 17 February 2013 - 03:23 PM

:heart: :heart: :heart: You're a good man, Charlie Brown.

#33 manzanita stark

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Posted 17 February 2013 - 11:43 PM

So roo wants updates? How about a pic? She likes this one and said it was ok to post. This was last November.

 

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#34 sarah b.

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Posted 18 February 2013 - 03:24 AM

Is she legal? :edit: my little sister looks older. I like the way she grooms her eyebrows.

#35 manzanita stark

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Posted 18 February 2013 - 08:41 AM

:lol: Sher will be 45 in July. I met her when I was 35 and she 20. We separated when she was 29.



#36 August West

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Posted 18 February 2013 - 10:54 AM

you better warn her about roo



#37 Tabbooma

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Posted 18 February 2013 - 12:22 PM

Roo is harmless, you just have to let him finish and he will move on to another leg ;)

 

you better warn her about roo


#38 twilight dancer

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Posted 18 February 2013 - 12:25 PM

<3



#39 KittyKindBud

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Posted 18 February 2013 - 12:43 PM

Good vibes to both you and her.....



#40 TheDHJ

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Posted 18 February 2013 - 07:14 PM

Wait...I totally took her home one night after a show at my bar. Rut roh. Awkward...

Ask her if she remembers me and that night. USS Josh was the operative phrase...

#41 August West

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Posted 18 February 2013 - 07:51 PM

Roo is harmless, you just have to let him finish and he will move on to another leg ;)

 

 

exactly

 

dont be surprised when..



#42 MeOmYo

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Posted 18 February 2013 - 07:54 PM

:heart:

 

I'm not far if you need any help...



#43 manzanita stark

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Posted 18 February 2013 - 07:59 PM

What? She doesn't remember me, how the hell do you rate?



#44 TheDHJ

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Posted 18 February 2013 - 09:12 PM

:lol: if she doesn't remember the operative name will be HMS Pinafailure.

Honestly though, we all scored chicks at the Novelty. Nothing to be ashamed of.

#45 phantomrelic

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Posted 19 February 2013 - 02:12 PM

Wait...I totally took her home one night after a show at my bar. Rut roh. Awkward...

Ask her if she remembers me and that night. USS Josh was the operative phrase...

You totally wish little boy....:)



#46 phantomrelic

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Posted 19 February 2013 - 02:13 PM

What? She doesn't remember me, how the hell do you rate?

Don't worry Stark...he's dreaming big...:)



#47 phantomrelic

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Posted 19 February 2013 - 02:19 PM

A week ago I was contacted by the woman I've had the most significant relationship with for the first time in almost 15years.

 

Most likely I have posted in the past this was not an angry, violent separation and was talked through as calmly as we could.

 

She walked in my door last Friday and politely said she was not here to interrupt my life but she was hurt, very hurt.

 

Sherry had a massive heart attack and flat lined long enough to suffer severe brain trauma. It's a miracle she is here and another there is little paralysis, just some minor problems with manipulating her fingers. She now experiences full body petite moll seizures....and of course some other more minor complications. Permanent memory is shattered and fragmented (she doesn't even recognize this city anymore, doesn't know her way around). Temporal not much better.

 

She told me she came to me not remembering but with a feeling I really cared and somehow knowing I could help 'fix" her.

 

I gave her a key to the house yesterday, after all this was her home. We need to get organized but she will be moving back in soon.

 

The improvement in confidence and self esteem in a week is evident. I hope to get her more comfortable socially as time goes on.

 

I told her if the time comes I know a group of people that will accept her as she is and love her and accept her as one of their own and no one would ever call her simple.

 

I love all of you! :heart:

Self esteem and confidence??? I have more of that than needed..lolol.



#48 TheDHJ

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Posted 19 February 2013 - 02:20 PM

So how is the Nov these days? :lol:

#49 TEO

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Posted 19 February 2013 - 02:24 PM

Greetings & welcome phantomrelic!

 

Quite the company you are keeping these days.  



#50 Tim the Beek

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Posted 19 February 2013 - 02:31 PM

Welcome phantomrelic! :)