Would you want to be in a relationship with yourself?
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Bonsai
, Apr 13 2011 08:58 PM
37 replies to this topic
#1
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- VibeTribe
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Posted 13 April 2011 - 08:58 PM
If you were you, as in with your current personality and similar past experiences, but technically not you, as in a separate individual, of the opposite sex (or same sex if you're gay) would you actually want to be in a relationship with yourself?
#7
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- VibeTribe
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Posted 13 April 2011 - 09:48 PM
I am not entirely sure if I would adore myself or drive myself crazy, or both, alternately.
Does similarity = compatability?
Is a lack of true, deep, fundamental compatibility the reason relationships fail? If two people have a lot in common, not even just on the surface level but on a deep level as far as spiritual beliefs, political and social beliefs, etc., but there are several aspects of their personalities that aren't compatible because those aspects are different than or even opposite from each other, does that mean the relationship is not truly feasible?
Does similarity = compatability?
Is a lack of true, deep, fundamental compatibility the reason relationships fail? If two people have a lot in common, not even just on the surface level but on a deep level as far as spiritual beliefs, political and social beliefs, etc., but there are several aspects of their personalities that aren't compatible because those aspects are different than or even opposite from each other, does that mean the relationship is not truly feasible?
#20
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Posted 14 April 2011 - 03:06 AM
If you were you, as in with your current personality and similar past experiences, but technically not you, as in a separate individual, of the opposite sex (or same sex if you're gay) would you actually want to be in a relationship with yourself?
HELL YEAH!!
It's a love/hate kinda thing....
#24
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- VibeTribe
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Posted 14 April 2011 - 05:26 PM
If you were you, as in with your current personality and similar past experiences, but technically not you, as in a separate individual, of the opposite sex (or same sex if you're gay) would you actually want to be in a relationship with yourself?
absolutely
I'm kind, understanding and giving in relationships
Does similarity = compatability?
Not always
Is a lack of true, deep, fundamental compatibility the reason relationships fail? If two people have a lot in common, not even just on the surface level but on a deep level as far as spiritual beliefs, political and social beliefs, etc., but there are several aspects of their personalities that aren't compatible because those aspects are different than or even opposite from each other, does that mean the relationship is not truly feasible?
Relationships fail for any number of reasons.
You can have everything in common with somone, but there's no spark
Or you can have nothing in common with someone, but there's fireworks
J/k I'm actually not a fan of toys, to be honest. (((Organic Masturbation)))
#37
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- VibeTribe
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Posted 16 April 2011 - 05:43 PM
Nah. While I could use a wife, it would be better if she had different strengths and liked to clean.
me & Frank say we need a wife all the time
and to answer the question NO-I'd definitely kill myself! 2 control freaks does not equal harmony!
