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#51 MeOmYo

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Posted 13 September 2012 - 08:24 PM

#1s of 20 year old?

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#52 Geminimoon

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Posted 13 September 2012 - 10:07 PM

#1s of 20 year old?

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Yep. Nothing wrong with that.

Better than being a teenager and pregnant.

#53 hoagie

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Posted 13 September 2012 - 10:39 PM

Yep. Nothing wrong with that.

Better than being a teenager and pregnant.


its a far stretch from going to a teen club and dancing dirty to getting pregnant, but I agree, virginity > Teen preggers any day.

#54 Geminimoon

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Posted 13 September 2012 - 10:49 PM

My point was that you can raise children to respect themselves and not dress like a slut.

And at 20 she can't get into a bar....

#55 MeOmYo

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Posted 14 September 2012 - 01:29 PM

You make it sound like the parent has 100% control of the situation. In your case, your children chose the route you agree with and are proud of. Not always the case though.

#1 of 20 year old?

#56 Smiles

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Posted 14 September 2012 - 01:33 PM

Good book dealing with some of the issues raised here:
http://www.amazon.co...n/dp/0679751661
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#57 hoagie

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Posted 14 September 2012 - 01:48 PM

You make it sound like the parent has 100% control of the situation.


My point exactly. I think all parents HOPE their kids will choose a life path that they agree to. No matter how awesome a parent you are, these kids still have a mind of their own...

#58 Geminimoon

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Posted 14 September 2012 - 03:18 PM

She is 20 years old.... what is the issue with her age?

No I never said parents have a 100% control of the situation but they do have a huge influence on their children. I am saying it is possible not to raise sex crazed children who have no self respect.

#59 hoagie

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Posted 14 September 2012 - 03:20 PM

I am saying it is possible not to raise sex crazed children who have no self respect.


It is equally possible to have a rebellious child who drops out of HS and marries a biker, and you end up having a grandchild with a dog collar, despite your best intentions and parenting, isn't it?

#60 Geminimoon

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Posted 14 September 2012 - 03:26 PM

agreed.... but just don't assume every child is going to turn out bad and there is nothing you can do about it.

#61 hoagie

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Posted 14 September 2012 - 03:27 PM

agreed.... but just don't assume every child is going to turn out bad and there is nothing you can do about it.


Not every bad child is a result of bad parenting.

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Posted 14 September 2012 - 04:44 PM

Because I accept that some young kids are going to want to act older regardless of what the parents say or do?


No because you're coming across like a pedophile.