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[hoagie]

a picture is worth 1000 words...

http://pulseradio.ne...nightclub-fails

[Tim the Beek]

Most of that is really, really sad.

[hoagie]

Most of that is really, really sad.

Most?

[TheDHJ]

Ok I don't get it. Where is this? What is it? Is it a joke or a hoax?

[hoagie]

Ok I don't get it. Where is this? What is it? Is it a joke or a hoax?

Me Either. I dont know. An All Ages Club. Pretty sure it is real.

[Tim the Beek]

Most?

Well, the middle school pic of the Jersey Shore guys was just kinda pathetic...

[hoagie]

I believe the club is in Oregon.


The Sound Garden

1279 NE 2nd ST, Bend, Oregon 97701

[TheDHJ]

How do you know? It looks like they have beers.

[hoagie]

I dont know for sure. I imagine they do "All AGes" Parties with no booze. I remember Club Abyss in Sayreville doing that when I was 17, it was every wed night, all ages. Across from Club Bene...

[TheDHJ]

Just sent a good friend in Bend a text warning him. He has a teen step daughter. I felt gross just looking at the pics.

[hoagie]

Just sent a good friend in Bend a text warning him. He has a teen step daughter. I felt gross just looking at the pics.

Can you blame the club, or do you blame the kids for wanting to "do the butt"?

[TheDHJ]

I blame a lack of supervision. I know kids will be kids but they can't be more than 13 or 14...with boobs hanging out. Yeah no. Totally inappropriate.

[manzanita stark]

Just sent a good friend in Bend a text warning him. He has a teen step daughter. I felt gross just looking at the pics.

Flashbacks of "The Aquarium"?? or was that before your time served in Oneonta?

[hoagie]

I blame a lack of supervision. I know kids will be kids but they can't be more than 13 or 14...with boobs hanging out. Yeah no. Totally inappropriate.

Im not seeing anything outrageous here...

[manzanita stark]

Flashbacks of "The Aquarium"?? or was that before your time served in Oneonta?

Hope you know the lol was for the "time served" crack. Did you live here during the era of The Aquarium? It was one of Ruffino's shady operations.

[TheDHJ]

Flashbacks of "The Aquarium"?? or was that before your time served in Oneonta?

I used to throw hardcore shows there when I first moved to town before I did the Joey's thing. Went there on weekends with my then girlfriend. All I remember from those nights are the ghetto girls screaming COBLESKILL!

Im not seeing anything outrageous here...

The difference between you and I is that I have two daughters.

[hoagie]

I used to throw hardcore shows there when I first moved to town before I did the Joey's thing. Went there on weekends with my then girlfriend. All I remember from those nights are the ghetto girls screaming COBLESKILL!



The difference between you and I is that I have two daughters.

denial of their sexuality is inevitable.

I just thought those pictures look really funny. I totally remember doing this stuff at schol dances, and teen nights.

These kids are probably *gasp* ing before they go to these all ages parties, too. I mean, its Oregon.

[TheDHJ]

I have a teen daughter and I'm not denying anything. There's appropriate and inappropriate behavior. Would you want your kid winding up online looking like that?

[hoagie]

I have a teen daughter and I'm not denying anything. There's appropriate and inappropriate behavior. Would you want your kid winding up online looking like that?

I wont deny that I was these kids less than 20 years ago, probably worse. Ok, I was worse.

What really would stick in your craw is the possibility that these kids could be proud of these pictures.

[TheDHJ]

Maybe I'm just way too old fashioned with my baby girls. I'd like to hear other perspectives besides Paul's though. Chris? Peg?

[hoagie]

Maybe I'm just way too old fashioned with my baby girls. I'd like to hear other perspectives besides Paul's though. Chris? Peg?

I dont know how you were as a kid, Josh, but it seems logical to expect your child to do the things you did as a kid, and more, wouldn't it?

[MeOmYo]

I don't think stopping kids from doing these kinds of things can be prevented unless they are supervised 24/7. Though, then you will have to deal with it when they turn 18.

[TheDHJ]

I hung out and played punk rock in my basement and at all ages venues.

I think what I'm trying to say is that encouraging the behavior and broadcasting it online is inappropriate.

[hoagie]

I hung out and played punk rock in my basement and at all ages venues.

I think what I'm trying to say is that encouraging the behavior and broadcasting it online is inappropriate.

thats just your opinion, isn't it?

Perhaps as a society we should be less uptight overall?

Shouldn't you be a little less uptight?

[TheDHJ]

Of course that's my opinion, nothing more.

[manzanita stark]

So did the Aquarium still let the underage in on the one level at the time? I as a parent did not care for the all age idea with the bar present even if the minors weren't permitted on the bar level or whatever the policy was. (don't really recall). Fortunately there was something about the place that didn't really appeal to Jenny and she didn't choose to go there often.

[TheDHJ]

I caught the tail end. In my time it was 18/21. Never saw any all ages nights. I was 21 anyway, probably didn't care. Worst drinks ever.

[hoagie]

Is it just unavoidable to be somewhat hypocritical when you become a parent? I mean on one hand, you yourself can remember the things you did behind your own parents' backs growing up, but on the other, you do not want your kids to do the same things...

It seems kind of unavoidable to fall into the "do as I say not as I do/did" trap...

[vinandtonic]

I wouldn't have been allowed out of the house in any of those outfits those girls were wearing. Waaaaay too skimpy. Not that I would have worn them anyway.

We did go to clubs that had all ages nights, but they didn't serve any alcohol on those nights. We went to dance and have fun.

[manzanita stark]

Not saying I wasn't aware that my kid and her circle of friends weren't more the type to get hold of a bottle of voldka and carry screwdrivers around in their bags in mason jars, lol,

[hoagie]

I wouldn't have been allowed out of the house in any of those outfits those girls were wearing. Waaaaay too skimpy. Not that I would have worn them anyway.

We did go to clubs that had all ages nights, but they didn't serve any alcohol on those nights. We went to dance and have fun.

Im sure they changed once they left. Or, I would hope

[vinandtonic]

you'd be surprised what I see teenage girls wearing to the bookstore as they shop with their parents.

[Java Time]

looks like a nice place for the kids to take e and the molly....lord knows what shady back alleys these kids would taking that shit in if it wasn't for that club!

awesome

[Geminimoon]

Hell no! Kids are sex crazed little monsters these days. I think worse than when any of we're growing up.

Sex is promoted in fashion, music, tv, movies and books.

I would not let my daughter/ niece dress like that and I would try to teach them to respect themselves more than to behave like that.

And an all age clubs in my opinion invites predators.

[Java Time]

Hell no! Kids are sex crazed little monsters these days. I think worse than when any of we're growing up.

Sex is promoted in fashion, music, tv, movies and books.

I would not let my daughter/ niece dress like that and I would try to teach them to respect themselves more than to behave like that.

And an all age clubs in my opinion invites predators.

all that with an emphasis on predators!!!

[hoagie]

Hell no! Kids are sex crazed little monsters these days. I think worse than when any of we're growing up.

Sex is promoted in fashion, music, tv, movies and books.

I would not let my daughter/ niece dress like that and I would try to teach them to respect themselves more than to behave like that.

And an all age clubs in my opinion invites predators.

line 1 opinion
Line 2 fact
Line 3, good luck with that
line 4 is just ridiculous and without basis

[TheDHJ]

Thanks Gmoon. There is a lack of self respect with this generation for sure. They simply don't care.

Paul I hate to say it...but you kind of look like a pederast now that she points it out.

[Java Time]

I miss the old days when as a youngster a chick in a tight swearer was sexy

[hoagie]

Thanks Gmoon. There is a lack of self respect with this generation for sure. They simply don't care.

Paul I hate to say it...but you kind of look like a pederast now that she points it out.

I am just saying, there were slootty 15-18 year olds when I was in 8th-12th grade. Is anyone very shocked at these pictures above?

The girl I lost my virginity to was 16. Can we not look at this stuff objectively? Is that impossible when you are actually a parent?

[georgi]

Seriously, never letting my daughter out of the house.

[TheDHJ]

Seriously, never letting my daughter out of the house.

This.

[Spidergawd]

GMoon is right, IMO. Kids are WAY worse and slootier now. It's a function of current culture. And I'm thinking it's not just opinion.

I looked over the pics. FUCKING. CREEPY.

[Java Time]

The girl I lost my virginity to was 16. i was 30....met her outside an all ages club. Can we not look at this stuff objectively? Is that impossible when you are actually a parent?

[TheDHJ]

GMoon is right, IMO. Kids are WAY worse and slootier now. It's a function of current culture. And I'm thinking it's not just opinion.

I looked over the pics. FUCKING. CREEPY.

The pics are border line kiddie porn.

[Spidergawd]

Yup. I feel all gross and Sandusky-ish now.

[hoagie]

They have not crossed the boarder.

I agree it looks bad, but doesn't look abnormal or anythin that kids this age wouldnt be doing regardless.

[cassady]

that just ain't right! end of story

[TheDHJ]

Yup. I feel all gross and Sandusky-ish now.

Yup.

Paul, I wouldn't let you anywhere near my kids lol.

[hoagie]

Yup.

Paul, I wouldn't let you anywhere near my kids lol.

Because I accept that some young kids are going to want to act older regardless of what the parents say or do?

[Geminimoon]

I have raised 2 girls already.

The oldest who is 20 is a virgin and the other is 19 and just lost her virginity to her long term boyfriend.

They never dressed like whores but were very fashionable.

It is possible to raise them to respect themselves.

And I think the pictures show how sex crazed our society has become.