9 replies to this topic

[secretshow6961]

Do you love having kids when you are young and energy or when you have enough time and foundation?
I love kids but I am afraid that if I have kids when I am young, I would not have enough time to go on with my own dream life.
Too many things needs to be done when we are young.
Tell me your opinions.

[Geminimoon]

Depends on the couples age and finances.

My husband and I have been married a little over a year and are expecting our first child in Feb.

[vinandtonic]

never.
we're not having kids, but if I had wanted them and circumstances were different, I would have wanted to have them by age 30. Maybe be married for 5 or so years before having them. (although I certainly wasn't ready to be married or have kids at either one of those ages.)

[kramer]

We are happily married DINKs (dual income, no kids). Maybe some day we'll have them, but for now, having fun enjoying the "single" married life, our free time and expendible income

[secretshow6961]

I love kids and maybe after wedding, I would like my baby to come within 2 years.

[georgi]

We got married September 2010, and gave birth to a beautiful little girl June 2012. So, we were married for a year and got pregnant.

I can't wait to have more!

[hoagie]

"Kids suck!" - Mama Fratelli

[Geminimoon]

We got married September 2010, and gave birth to a beautiful little girl June 2012. So, we were married for a year and got pregnant.

I can't wait to have more!

How many are you guys thinking of having?

[hoagie]

How many are you guys thinking of having?

And what side dishes will you serve with them?

[stephenowen]

It's different for every couple and situation.  But, not that having children should be dependent on finances, but if you can't afford to raise children you should probably wait until you can.  Don't be pressured into having them, though.  They'll be your kids!