30 replies to this topic

[hoagie]

...2 chicks kiss and make out, but if two dudes start necking in public, most people would not be interested?

Why is this double-standard socially acceptable?

[elder]

depends who they are and who you ask.
for instance....Rosanne Bar and Hillary Clinton kissing = not hot

actually I don't think I need anymore examples than that one

[hoagie]

i see your point there, but if two pretty men started to tongueing, prolly only Gregoir would like it..prolly

[BHB]

for instance....Rosanne Bar and Hillary Clinton kissing = not hot

actually if keeps Roseanne from going on the main stage and screaming like an idiot, i'd watch that.

[elder]

i see your point there, but if two pretty men started to tongueing, prolly only Gregoir would like it..prolly

originally you said outraged.
I'm not into 2 pretty men kissing, but I am not outraged

[hoagie]

originally you said outraged.
I'm not into 2 pretty men kissing, but I am not outraged

i did NOT sir...

[gregoir]

i see your point there, but if two pretty men started to tongueing, prolly only Gregoir would like it..prolly

probably not. pda makes me uncomfortable no matter who does it. I believe private things should be kept private

[TEO]

Personally I find the leval of hotness to be dependent on the leval of passion being emitted by the two people kissing.

[BHB]

Personally I find the leval of hotness to be dependent on the leval of passion being emitted by the two people kissing.

yes.... keep going.... tell us more...

[hoagie]

probably not. pda makes me uncomfortable no matter who does it. I believe private things should be kept private

sketchy prude...



women are much prettier to look at, thats MY excuse

[BHB]

so you contribute to the outrage?

i'm very confused at your approach to this thread...

[KittyRocks]

...2 chicks kiss and make out, but if two dudes start necking in public, most people would not be interested?

not if i was around - bring on the making out guys please

[elder]

i did NOT sir...

did too. don't make me go pull the backup tapes

[hoagie]

(edit is a nice feature)

[Rionach aka Spec K]

I don't mind 2 dudes making out
in fact, I think one of the hottest onscreen kisses in Brokeback Mountain
check out #47: http://www.latimesma.../50-kisses.html

[Java Time]

it's a double standard cuz most chicks don't mind girl on girl and most men don't mind girl on girl either. so you have both sexes being fine with the practice.

of women I talked with...man on man doesn't hold the same fantasy for them as girl on girl for men...so you lose a big portion of a demographic on this subject matter...ergo the disparity

[KittyRocks]

of women I talked with...man on man doesn't hold the same fantasy for them as girl on girl for men...

i bet WAY more women have this fantasy than actually admit it. in fact i was just trying to convince jon he is bi but hes not that easy to trick!

[Java Time]

i bet WAY more women have this fantasy than actually admit it. in fact i was just trying to convince jon he is bi but hes not that easy to trick!

I knew it...more chick lies*

have you tried getting him drunk and tried peer pressure?

*of course not regarding me...I'm pretty sure I've been the best they ever had...cuz they told me this

[Rionach aka Spec K]

i bet WAY more women have this fantasy than actually admit it. in fact i was just trying to convince jon he is bi but hes not that easy to trick!

i bet WAY more men have this fantasy than actually admit it.

[MeOmYo]

women have been the more prominent sex symbol since, well, forever.

[gregoir]

Also pop culture constantly tells us homosexual acts are gross and something to be mocked. Almost any mainstream gross out comedy these days contains at least one "shocking" scene in which men inadvertently kiss or are continuously hit on by some sort of extremely unattractive man or drag queen.

[TEO]

For me, no matter the participants, it depends if it comes from a place of objectifying people or bearing witness to an expression of love.

[KittyRocks]

i bet WAY more men have this fantasy than actually admit it.

excellent counter point

[Tim the Beek]

Kinda what Xena said.

Dudes kissin' isn't hot for me, but if there's love evident, it makes me smile.

[KrisNYG]

Kinda what Xena said.

Dudes kissin' isn't hot for me, but if there's love evident, it makes me smile.

Ding!!!

[Lazy Lightning]

i see your point there, but if two pretty men started to tongueing, prolly only Gregoir would like it..prolly

Um, no.

*I'd* like it.

[Smiles]

I've been disappointed/disturbed by how revolting I've found dudes making out to be in the past. I always kept it to myself. Kind of ashamed of it. Probably through exposure, it really doesn't bother me anymore. Whether its something innate, or some product of media/culture/upbringing I'm not sure.

What I do know, there are many straight woman who find the idea and stories about homosexual men engaging sexually very "hot".
http://en.wikipedia....i/Slash_fiction

I read an interesting treatise positing an explanation for this
http://www.amazon.co...y/dp/0300093543

[Eco]

Whatever makes people happy, I can turn my head it doesn't interest me. I've seen plenty of my gay men kissing and it neither turns my stomach or excites me so I look the other way. The same goes for lesbians when one or both of them are really butch.....but the hot ones and the not so hot but ones with tons of passion....that shit turns me on.

[KindGeeGirl]

This thread reminded me that Brokeback Mnt is on tonight

HOT!!!

[hoagie]

Also pop culture constantly tells us homosexual acts are gross and something to be mocked. Almost any mainstream gross out comedy these days contains at least one "shocking" scene in which men inadvertently kiss or are continuously hit on by some sort of extremely unattractive man or drag queen.

or eat cum-filled twinkies ala Van Wilder?

[unbroken_chain]

I don't find it hot, but after seven days in San Francisco, I'm even more comfortable and supportive than befre

Of course at least once per year in Boston I work for the Dept if Homoland Security