i am so done with women

[Quinn The Eskimo]

if i never date anyone again it'll be too soon
i give and give and give
all i ever get is a broken heart
i'm tired of bending over backwards only to get walked all over
as lonely as being single beomes it hurts less than this

if you ever hear me talking about some great new girl i met again please slap some sense into me

[cybertentbob]

you mus'nt give up on THE GRAILE!

[PieDoh]

When you least expect it......there it will be. Women are like that...they have finely tuned "lownar"...

Smile....

Relax....

Breathe...

[Milarepa]

have i ever had my heart broken?

probably

[Mr.BBG]

Damn that sucks man ... I Hope the pain subsides.

[sarah b.]

better days ahead, jon. :heart:

[cdrhead]

Hang in there dude.

I said goodbye unnoticed
Pushed towards things in my own games
Drifting in and out of lifetimes
Unmentionable by name
Searching for my double, looking for
Complete evaporation to the core
Though I tried and failed at finding any door
I must have thought that there was nothing more
Absurd than that love is just a four-letter word

[CreekFreek]

I'm sorry to hear things didn't work out. :heart:

[Luna]

When you least expect it......there it will be. Women are like that...they have finely tuned "lownar"...

Smile....

Relax....

Breathe...


"lownar" :lol:

But that is true for most things.

Dont give up Quinn you have to believe there is someone out there for everyone. Just try and learn from the past and move forward knowing its almost your time :heart:

[fire_rocket]

Sorry to hear, Quinn. :heart: Somewhere the perfect woman is out there for you- perhaps even a redhead? :wink:

[Dr. Lostreality]

Hey Quinn- definitely been where you're at. I took an entire year off from dating in 2006, decided if anyone asked me out I would say no, and would try and avoid getting into any situation that could lead to dating (although I broke that rule a time or two). It was a great year...I went to a ton of shows, and learned a lot about what it is that makes me happy, when I'm completely on my own and don't have to worry about making other people happy. I wrote in a journal a lot and figured out what I wanted out of a relationship if I ever wanted one again, what went wrong with past relationships, what were the things that actually made me happy and what were things I was doing because that's how 'things were done'. In general, I learned a lot about myself. I didn't really even tell anyone about this at the time...it was just something I did for myself.

Then 12 days after my 'year alone' was over (1/12/07) I met my fiance. I truly believe that taking that year to figure out what made me tick, not worry about boys, and work on becoming truly happy in and of myself made me ready for the relationship I have with him - the first relationship I've had where I've been really really happy and have not felt like I've had to compromise anything of myself to do that.

[unbroken_chain]

:lol: In my case, I think women are done with me....

[little frog]

mama said there'd be days like this ...

[blindmule]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TjNNxnKVEpQ

Words to live by :lol:

[teabag]

:lol: so does this mean you are playing for the same team now

[Milarepa]

nah the myth of someone out there for you is just that a myth.

no one is out there for you

your going to have to nice and charming and patient and not afraid to walk away allot!

after a time there will be at least one following you.

bring that one home and have sex with it.

and repeat process.

love life reality delusion all sandcastles

you can't keep the tide from coming in so just be prepared to build more.

[Quinn The Eskimo]

:lol: so does this mean you are playing for the same team now

i didn't say i was going to stop having sex with women
i'm just not going to call them afterwards

[Mr_Pat]

i didn't say i was going to stop having sex with women
i'm just not going to call them afterwards

Dude, most girls don’t like overly nice guys or guys that cling on or are possessive. You will get more tail than you know what to do with if you follow my rules. ;)

[Quinn The Eskimo]

i'm listening...

[Mr_Pat]

DOnt call em, (you can call a little, but let them call you)
Keep Calls/text to the bear minimum...
Don’t be overly nice
Whatever you do, don’t be possessive or at their side every minute
Do become co/dependant
Girls want guys who are self confident (that’s why assholes always have chick’s, they might be assholes but there confident assholes)

[Skrockypoint]

Mr Pat is right. From what I see from the woman I know. They all seem to go after the biggest assholes around,then call me when they need a friend or something done for them that needs a man. Well Quinn, Nice guy's do finish last. I can't help being a nice guy. So I guess, good-luck to guy's like us.

Peace

[teabag]

:V: well u guys keep being nice and i will screw your women for you :V:

[Skrockypoint]

:V: well u guys keep being nice and i will screw your women for you :V:

Go for it. Just do me a favor...........



































Let me know how I taste. :rotf:

[JamOnIt247]

:lmao:

[Luna]

:rolleyes: Women WANT nice guys!! Be sexy, confident, intelligent, YOURSELF and a good guy. Then ya got it made

[cybertentbob]

ya gotta kiss (and buy dinner for ) a lot of frogettes before you find the princess! dont give up the shit!!!!lol

[Jersey Thug]

:rolleyes: Women WANT nice guys!! Be sexy, confident, intelligent, YOURSELF and a good guy. Then ya got it made

seriously.

sorry you're hurting Quinnie. much love to you :heart:

please find a happy medium between doormat and asshole, though. most of us don't really like either of those in the long run.

[Ginger Snap]

you mus'nt give up on THE GRAILE!

I prefer the term "chalice" myself, but I guess it's the same idea.

I'm with Thuggy on this one. A gentle balance between sweet and nice, and having the balls to "snap" me in place on the occasions I get out of line. (cause it happens sometimes.)

I was real bumed to read this thread title cause i knew what was inside. Sorry Quinn. :heart:

[sums]

please find a happy medium between doormat and asshole, though. most of us don't really like either of those in the long run.

sorry mr pat, but you are waaaay off the mark! we want to be called, paid attention to and we LOVE communication. the only thing you were right about is the self confident part. being an asshole and being self-confident are two different things entirely.

[Tabbooma]

:sperm: My friends and I like swimming....

[sarah b.]

summer's right.
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[cdrhead]

sorry mr pat, but you are waaaay off the mark! we want to be called, paid attention to and we LOVE communication. the only thing you were right about is the self confident part. being an asshole and being self-confident are two different things entirely.

See I'm glad I read this again because I was thinking what Mr. Pat said was dead on(except for the asshole part) :lol:

[Mr_Pat]

I didnt tell him to be an asshole, I was using that as an example.

[sums]

DOnt call em, (you can call a little, but let them call you)
Keep Calls/text to the bear minimum...
Don’t be overly nice



ok, but this part is all wrong! ;)

[Milarepa]

dont give them lots of free stuff then they come to expect it like everyone else.

[teabag]

Go for it. Just do me a favor...........



































Let me know how I taste. :rotf:


i don't kiss
i get kissed on the

so why don't u tell me how i taste :lol:

[PixieKelly]

((((((Jon))))))) I love you! You'll be ok!! and the upside of you not having a girlfriend is that I get to talk to you a lot more often.... how selfish am I? ((((((JON)))))))
:heart:

[HoopsTer]

:rolleyes: Women WANT nice guys!! Be sexy, confident, intelligent, YOURSELF and a good guy. Then ya got it made

It's true.
Women want the right nice guy.
It takes time to adjust to the niceness. Sometimes it still catches me off guard. I have a nice guy and I wouldnt trade him for the world.


(((Jon))) :heart:

[Spiffy]

Hey Quinn- definitely been where you're at. I took an entire year off from dating. It was a great year...I went to a ton of shows, and learned a lot about what it is that makes me happy, when I'm completely on my own and don't have to worry about making other people happy. I wrote in a journal a lot and figured out what I wanted out of a relationship if I ever wanted one again, what went wrong with past relationships, what were the things that actually made me happy and what were things I was doing because that's how 'things were done'. In general, I learned a lot about myself. I didn't really even tell anyone about this at the time...it was just something I did for myself.

thats pretty solid advice. the exact essence of what i would have said. Once I stopped caring and trying to find someone to make me happy I realized that I had it in me all along...didn't need someone else cause I was enough.
I don't know you very well, but the few times we've hung out you've blown me away by how caring/interesting and interested in others you are. The right girl is out there, she just may not be ready for you yet. afterall, we're all on our own journeys.

[Erinisme]

i hear ya...i'm done trying to figure out what's wrong with men

if you say you're gonna call...call

If you say you're done and not going to call anymore...don't call

This I understand...dont' say you're gonna call and not call or say you won't call and by up my ass and to the right

and don't give a compliament unless you really mean it...we see through lines

ugh men!

[Skrockypoint]

thats pretty solid advice. the exact essence of what i would have said. Once I stopped caring and trying to find someone to make me happy I realized that I had it in me all along...didn't need someone else cause I was enough.
I don't know you very well, but the few times we've hung out you've blown me away by how caring/interesting and interested in others you are. The right girl is out there, she just may not be ready for you yet. afterall, we're all on our own journeys.

The best advice yet. :thumbsup:

[Donald_Pearson]

argh! I had to tell the girl staying with me to leave today... She was hot and cute, but a real nut job. I could even have put up with the bi-polar mood swings, etc... but going through all of our stuff all of the time was getting to be too much for a little sex... Today was the last straw...

[Don Nucka]

:V: well u guys keep being nice and i will screw your women for you :V:



no, thats MY job.

[jagermonster]

hang in there buddy, you're a good dude!
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[Luna]

thats pretty solid advice. the exact essence of what i would have said. Once I stopped caring and trying to find someone to make me happy I realized that I had it in me all along...didn't need someone else cause I was enough.
I don't know you very well, but the few times we've hung out you've blown me away by how caring/interesting and interested in others you are. The right girl is out there, she just may not be ready for you yet. afterall, we're all on our own journeys.

Thats something im learning even while being in a good relationship it is def the key to it all :heart:

[Quinn The Eskimo]

ok so as i'm sure you gathered from my post i got dumped...
a few days later she called me
she broke up with me because she says she felt like she didn't deserve me
we talked
things are all worked out for now
i really love her... i've had a few serious relationships and don't think i've ever been with anyone i cared so much about, so i'm very happy we worked it out

thanks for all the support and advise folks
especially you spiffy, that was really sweet of you to say and it felt really good to hear what kind of impression i made on you
i guess i should have tried hitting on you lol

[Ginger Snap]

Right on Brother.:heart: