are you...

[Jersey Thug]

inquiring minds want to know.

[JamOnIt247]

right fucking now! :V:

[Jersey Thug]

right fucking now! :V:

patience, Jammy...give a girl a chance to FINISH will ya? :funny1:

[JamOnIt247]

:lmao: Holy shit.. I didnt see the poll here when I posted that above.. I thought it was a fill in the blank! :lol:

[JamOnIt247]

Told you I was Anxious! :crazy: ....


but gotta vote two times because Im both!
You know that silly goose.. being a fellow pea podder and all..
It depends on the situation and mood im in.
Sometimes I wanna show who's boss!
Sometimes I want the boss to show me!

[Jersey Thug]

ok so maybe you needed to finish more than i did. i'm not judging! :heart: :lol:

[JamOnIt247]

shit.. they wont let me take it twice. :lol:

[Jersey Thug]

there WAS an option for allowing multiples...i didn't enable it though.

sorry, Jammy, i didn't account for your insatiable need to, ahhh...take it. i'll get you next time ;)

[Ginger Snap]

Ok, I'm fairly dominant I'd say.

[Jersey Thug]

ya think? :funny1:

<----prefers to be submissive, but requires a rather strong, dominant partner to make her submit :naughty:

[Jersey Thug]

which i suppose means i'm really both :lol:

[JamOnIt247]

which i suppose means i'm really both :lol:


See... I told you.

I always enjoy your thought process though. :lol:

[Ginger Snap]

ya think? :funny1:

<----prefers to be submissive, but requires a rather strong, dominant partner to make her submit :naughty:


your answer surprises me. What I do know is that you also seem display both sadist and masochistic tendancies considering all this talk is torturing me, and I know you'll be sorry be the end of the day.

[Jersey Thug]

See... I told you.

I always enjoy your thought process though. :lol:

in that case, you should have seen all the stuff i typed but deleted before hitting post :lol:

[Jersey Thug]

your answer surprises me. What I do know is that you also seem display both sadist and masochistic tendancies considering all this talk is torturing me, and I know you'll be sorry be the end of the day.

i already am :blush:

i'm always willing to be MORE sorry though. bring it :Phishfolk::Phishfolk::Phishfolk:

[Jersey Thug]

but...surprises you? how so? we can take this to PM if you like :lol:

[Ginger Snap]

but...surprises you? how so? we can take this to PM if you like :lol:

I probably should have done that long ago. :funny1: Whatever, I have no shame.

I wouldn't figure you as submissive. Guess I'll have to check that out for myself. :devil:

[Mr_Pat]

Dom male but I do enjoy my occasional submissiveness:naughty:

[Jersey Thug]

I wouldn't figure you as submissive. Guess I'll have to check that out for myself. :devil:

okay :D just keep in mind...

<----prefers to be submissive, but requires a rather strong, dominant partner to make her submit :naughty:

:wink:

i'm no shrinking violet.

[Ginger Snap]

okay :D just keep in mind...



:wink:

i'm no shrinking violet.


I prefer a throbbing and slightly swollen flower anyhow.

[Jersey Thug]

what a coincidence... :lol:

oh wait...PM :lol: right :lol:

[roo]

this poll is broken!! i will be what the situation calls for..

[Jersey Thug]

i was going on the assumption that most people have a preference, though they certainly may stray from it as often as they like.

unfortunately i can't edit a poll or i'd add a sixth option for "flexible" :thumbsup:

[roo]

holy shit!! you ASSumed..!?

[Jersey Thug]

yeah...bad Jennie :spank:

[roo]

yeah seriously! my mental picture too!.. but my paddle is black

[Jersey Thug]

reow :devil:

aaand that reminds me, i've been meaning to ask Kate where she found her slut paddle. Kate? :huh:

[roo]

most any REAL sex shop. not porn shop.

[Jersey Thug]

yeah, i actually just checked my favorite store and they have it. thanks :)

[motti]

there is no option for both!

[Jersey Thug]

my bad, Motti!

unfortunately i can't edit a poll or i'd add a sixth option for "flexible" :thumbsup:

[motti]

i noticed...

[Jersey Thug]

your vote is duly noted.

[Nevrmore]

<----dominant female :devil:

((was there ever any question?))

[Jersey Thug]

nope :D

[Jersey Thug]

though i have to admit that i find the mere thought of a submissive albino giant husband VERY interesting.

you're so fucking cool, PA :jam:

[Nevrmore]

though i have to admit that i find the mere thought of a submissive albino giant husband VERY interesting.

you're so fucking cool, PA :jam:

yeah, no one really expects the 6ft5 265lb albino to be so sweet and compliant! :rotf:

we tried to switch one time,,,

I fell off the bed laughing within 5 minutes :funny1:

he's just so sweet and nice and SO NOT a dom :heart:

[Jersey Thug]

you're so fucking cool, PA :jam:

Exhibit A:

yeah, no one really expects the 6ft5 265lb albino to be so sweet and compliant! :rotf:

we tried to switch one time,,,

I fell off the bed laughing within 5 minutes :funny1:


:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

one time?

you tried switching ONE TIME???

you've been together at least 7 years. that i know.

ONE TIME???

you really ARE the perfect woman. :clapping:

[Nevrmore]

together since Dec 99, married since Dec 01

and yup, one time. I felt so bad for laughing at him, he was trying so hard to be strict and dom, bless his heart, that I just couldn't bear it again :funny1:



Exhibit A:



:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

one time?

you tried switching ONE TIME???

you've been together at least 7 years. that i know.

ONE TIME???

you really ARE the perfect woman. :clapping:

[Don Nucka]

slightly dominant male, good way to work out my aggression, and very fun to see just how far someone's limits can be pushed, but also like being sub, and of course gotta give it up for just plain sex as well. Not into pain and all that shit, it's more about control/trust and testing limits.

[KARSEN]

Def All of The Above.

I am definatly the one with the labido that has NO off switch.lol. So I am probably the aggressor generally...TO START anyway..he turns the table on me right quick too though often..lol.

I do enjoy submissive as well sometimes...my guy is so mild mannered that it is a turn on to hear him get firey and tell me exactly what to do and where to do it.

Yea..its ALL fine with me is what I am getting at:lol:

[Don Nucka]

see with me it is a shock to seee such (fake) violence and demandingness coming from my 5 foot 8 frame and generall strung out deadhead physique. Women get pleasantly suprised. My strength triples in bed, no lie, due to enhancers or what i dont know.

[Spiderweb]

I swing both ways depending on the situation

[Luna]

I agree Im a lil bit of both

[safireblues]

In my heart of hearts, I'm more dominant, I'm always pulling the strings to get what I want. I'm not afraid to make moves or say how I feel or how it's going to be.

By the same token, I love a man smacking me around and roughing me up. (Or woman, even better). I get off on pain, hair pulling, seeing what I can tolerate. There are times when I feel sort of out of control and a good smack will always bring me back to earth.

I like to read someone's energies and find out what they most crave and explore that. Some people need to learn to be more dominant and you can help them by letting them be that way with you. I find that in men, it feeds them to be able to cockslap a little skank. Every man needs that.

[Creekie]

:devil:I'm both,depending on my mood...and the mood of my partner...:devil:

[bast]

mostly submissive

[suunshine]

where's the 'both' option?

[Jersey Thug]

it doesn't exist. now CHOOSE!!!! :spank: :spank: :spank:

( :lol: )

[Ginger Snap]

In my heart of hearts, I'm more dominant, I'm always pulling the strings to get what I want. I'm not afraid to make moves or say how I feel or how it's going to be.

By the same token, I love a man smacking me around and roughing me up. (Or woman, even better). I get off on pain, hair pulling, seeing what I can tolerate. There are times when I feel sort of out of control and a good smack will always bring me back to earth.

I like to read someone's energies and find out what they most crave and explore that. Some people need to learn to be more dominant and you can help them by letting them be that way with you. I find that in men, it feeds them to be able to cockslap a little skank. Every man needs that.


I'm so confused.:undecided:

[Don Nucka]

you sex freaks are all the same. lest i reeducate you

[musicmomma]

i put dominant :wink:

[JamOnIt247]

i put dominant :wink:

hmmmmmm.... Im very positive you can be.. but I also know you like to be submissive as well.. i think you are both. but thats just me :grin:

[musicmomma]

well, i'm DEF not sexually submissive in my married relationship, lol... anytime he 'thinks' he dom. its just cause i let him think so, lol. :lmao:

[Jersey Thug]

I find that in men, it feeds them to be able to cockslap a little skank. Every man needs that.

ya know, every time i read through this thread i get stuck at this line and just needed to give it up to safireblues for going there.

<gives Kate standing O>

:clapping: :clapping: :clapping: :clapping: :clapping: :clapping: :clapping: :clapping:

[JamOnIt247]

I completely agree Thuggalicous...

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmcockslapping.. giving me visualitis

[Jersey Thug]

"visualitis" :lol:

i wish tomorrow would hurry up and get here already. i have some thoughts.

[safireblues]

ya know, every time i read through this thread i get stuck at this line and just needed to give it up to safireblues for going there.

<gives Kate standing O>

:clapping: :clapping: :clapping: :clapping: :clapping: :clapping: :clapping: :clapping:


Oooh, I like standing O's but I prefer them laying down, lest I fall.

I don't know, I just see my man walk a little taller after he treats me like his whore. Might not work for everyone, but for us, done put a spring in the old step.

And it works both ways. I like feeling like "THE MAN" sometimes too.

[Jersey Thug]

yes.