Christ, it's hard to do the right thing

[safireblues]

What would you do?

She's 22, she's hot, she likes you, she kisses you....

but she has a boyfriend.

They don't live together, they aren't married, they have been together for years and are more like brother and sister.

I said NO but damn if it's not haunting me.

:joker:

[unbroken_chain]

I assure you, my answer is likely not beneficial to the "right thing" to do.

[safireblues]

GAH GAH GAH GAH

I hate being moral sometimes...

I thought, I can bend the rules, just this one time. But then the stupid internal karma police always knock at my door.

I hate those karma police, unless they are in a delightful Radiohead song.

:joker:

[Lemireacle]

I hate those karma police, unless they are in a delightful Radiohead song.

Did you lose yourself, just for a minute?

[TEO]

Have her get a written note from her boyfriend.

[vinandtonic]

does she have a hitler haircut? ;)

[safireblues]

Have her get a written note from her boyfriend.


She said "he doesn't share" so the only recourse is sneaking around. But then I see the person lying and I lose respect and subsequently interest in them.

:joker:

I love this guy, he's a perfect representation of how I feel.

Also, no one should be in a 5 year relationship at 22. NO. You should be experimenting with all the cute older women living in your neighborhood. Who's with me?

[Jersey Thug]

oh hey hot stuff :) good to see you!

my thought: as it would probably fall on you to 'comfort' her after/if she did the deed, you're probably better off leaving that particular itch unscratched. :funny1:

[safireblues]

Did you lose yourself, just for a minute?


For like an hour. :pimp:

[safireblues]

oh hey hot stuff :) good to see you!

my thought: as it would probably fall on you to 'comfort' her after/if she did the deed, you're probably better off leaving that particular itch unscratched. :funny1:

Hey, good to see you too...

and I know...

but I have so many delicious plans. So many plans.

*cries*

[Jersey Thug]

She said "he doesn't share" so the only recourse is sneaking around.


seriously? that's the only recourse she sees?

oh to be 22 again... :rolleyes: :lol:

[safireblues]

does she have a hitler haircut? ;)

I don't know what that means...but no...

Thank god.

[Jersey Thug]

you know she'll end up making you feel like the bad guy for giving her exactly what she wanted, and you (having the giant heart and common decency you do) would feel like a total asshole afterward when all you should feel after is, well, afterglow.

[safireblues]

seriously? that's the only recourse she sees?

oh to be 22 again... :rolleyes: :lol:

I know, but they have "known each other since they were 10" and "he knows she likes women but he isn't into it."

She wants to marry him and stuff, but...can't they just take a break. I mean, for a good 3 hour afternoon?

[safireblues]

you know she'll end up making you feel like the bad guy for giving her exactly what she wanted, and you (having the giant heart and common decency you do) would feel like a total asshole afterward when all you should feel after is, well, afterglow.


I know, I would feel like a total asshat.

And I like her too, she's like a younger more latina me.

[dannydonx]

What would you do?

She's 22, she's hot, she likes you, she kisses you....

but she has a boyfriend.

They don't live together, they aren't married, they have been together for years and are more like brother and sister.

I said NO but damn if it's not haunting me.

:joker:

Seee things like this are hard. Always remember what goes around comes around.

[safireblues]

Seee things like this are hard. Always remember what goes around comes around.

So maybe because I said no, I will go home and find that red head chick from Mad Men in my living room?

Please work that way, universe.

[unbroken_chain]

well, you really have answered your own question here... without her s/o's blessing, its not meant to be.

[safireblues]

well, you really have answered your own question here... without her s/o's blessing, its not meant to be.


I know, but I hope I can still bitch about it.

[unbroken_chain]

its the only way we can stay sane.

ps: I've missed ya baby.

[safireblues]

its the only way we can stay sane.

ps: I've missed ya baby.


aww, I missed you guys too. I like the new board so much better. The old board was like anal without lube. Difficult and uncomfortable.

[Lemireacle]

You should be experimenting with all the cute older women living in your neighborhood. Who's with me?

:clapping:

I am so with you on this one! :funny1:

[Jersey Thug]

bitch away, sista! :heart:

(((Mad Men chick waiting for you at home)))

you deserve that and much more for taking pity on the poor confused Latina. i hope she figures out who she is and who she wants before the wedding, for both their sakes :heart:

[TEO]

Would he let her share if you promise not use to the double dong?

[safireblues]

Would he let her share if you promise not use to the double dong?

I guess he said to his brother in an offhanded way "my girl is the fantasy for so many guys. She likes girls, wants to share, but I have no interest."

And his brother said "what's wrong with you, bro?"

[lost-in-boston]

aww, I missed you guys too. I like the new board so much better. The old board was like anal without lube. Difficult and uncomfortable.

:lol:
oh yes I've missed you and your way with words!!! welcome back sweets! :devil:

[TEO]

How about if the boyfriend is not required to participate???

[safireblues]

How about if the boyfriend is not required to participate???

He could participate or not, but has no interest in either.