So, there's this yummy trainer at my job...

[Creekie]

this boy is too damn cute....seriously, I wanna do very naughty things to him.:naughty:

So at the x-mas party, we were a tad bit touchy-feely with each other.... people thought we kissed,and lemme tall ya, I had been drinking, but I would remember that.:wink:

however, he told someone we did.Does this mean he was drunk and thinks so, or wants it to be true?

anyway. I'm single, not really seeing anybody, and I do think he likes me, he looks a lot. It's cute, really. But he's shy as hell.Maybe I scare him? Lol.

seriously, when did it become this freaking hard?


I just want some attention, a few dates maybe, a little um, exercise...

oyi. I need help. lol.


How do I get a shy one to come around?

[KindGeeGirl]

Ask him to meet you for drinks at a bar after work. Feed him yaeger :wink:

[Jersey Thug]

it's not that hard. just ask him out for coffee or something, and if you still feel the vibe go on from there :)

[JamOnIt247]

exactly what thug said... Dont think about everything too much. Just ask him and feel things out. Pretty simple to me! ;)

[Creekie]

you have to remember, I haven't *dated* since I was 21. I'm 33 now.
was with Bill, then Don....pretty much back to back....don;t have a clue. and I'm a little intimidated, he's just so freaking good looking.and in crazy good shape. Couldn;t see what he'd see in me if he weren'tdrunk...ya know?
so I'm unsure if I should try.
I'm older, heavier, have a kid now.... not 21 anymore. Scared and self-conscious.

[KindGeeGirl]

A 21 year old hot guy at work is telling people he kissed you and you don't think it happened. FUCK that scared and self-conscious shit :wink:

you have to remember, I haven't *dated* since I was 21. I'm 33 now.
was with Bill, then Don....pretty much back to back....don;t have a clue. and I'm a little intimidated, he's just so freaking good looking.and in crazy good shape. Couldn;t see what he'd see in me if he weren'tdrunk...ya know?
so I'm unsure if I should try.
I'm older, heavier, have a kid now.... not 21 anymore. Scared and self-conscious.

[Creekie]

no, he's 27.

I haven't dated since I was 21.

I;m not THAT much of a cougar. lol.

[Jersey Thug]

think about what will be lost if you ask him out for coffee and he says no...

and then think about what might be lost if you don't ask him. :huh:

he may be a bit intimidated, too, you know. ;)

i was 22 the last time i was single, Creekie, and i'm 36 now...so i KNOW how scary that can be. believe me. but the sooner you let go of your self-consciousness, the sooner you can move forward, you know? believe me, all the old instincts do come flooding back quickly if you let them!

(oh but if you're sure you did not kiss him, i would definitely ask him why he told someone you had...BEFORE kissing him 'again'.)

[Creekie]

well, the way we were sitting, and talking, I guess it looked like we were. we wereon this party bus on the way back. he was holding my hand,and we were talking in each others' ears.
he just went away for two weeks. he's back now,and i don't know how to proceed. I guess coffee could work,i've seen him across the street at starbucks.

oyi. why am I a freaking teenager again?

[KindGeeGirl]

no, he's 27.

I haven't dated since I was 21.

I;m not THAT much of a cougar. lol.

Sorry, I guess my imagination for away with me :wink:

Good luck :heart:

[Donald_Pearson]

OY! Just walk up to him and plant one on him.... When did you get shy? :p

[Creekie]

OY! Just walk up to him and plant one on him.... When did you get shy? :p

I need your coaching...:wink::devil:

seriously, though, I asked him if he wanted to gohave coffee next week.

Don, seriously, more guys need to be like you....YOU were way easier.:wink::devil::devil::funny1::heart::heart:

[musicmomma]

good luck. just go for it.:heart:

[Don Nucka]

Ask him to meet you for drinks at a bar after work. Feed him yaeger :wink:


This will work. Get him drunk, preferably on something diesel, and have your way. You have earned it.

[cybertentbob]

sing to him..thats how ya swooned me! well that and you flashin me!

[Donald_Pearson]

I need your coaching...:wink::devil:

seriously, though, I asked him if he wanted to gohave coffee next week.

Don, seriously, more guys need to be like you....YOU were way easier.:wink::devil::devil::funny1::heart::heart:

Did you just call me easy?!:devil:

[TEO]

Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

[Creekie]

Did you just call me easy?!:devil:

didn't quite mean it like that love, but now that I think about it.......:devil:

but, really, I am too, that may be why we click. :lol::wink:

[Donald_Pearson]

so was it the cute trainer that found your release...?

[Creekie]

so was it the cute trainer that found your release...?

oh, no, not him....and there won't be more of where it came from for a long while....

so we're back to square one, told ya it was a fluke.:crying1:

[Donald_Pearson]

oh, no, not him....and there won't be more of where it came from for a long while....

so we're back to square one, told ya it was a fluke.:crying1:

Not a fluke - you're just keeping your options open and playing the field... ;)

[dannydonx]

this boy is too damn cute....seriously, I wanna do very naughty things to him.:naughty:

So at the x-mas party, we were a tad bit touchy-feely with each other.... people thought we kissed,and lemme tall ya, I had been drinking, but I would remember that.:wink:

however, he told someone we did.Does this mean he was drunk and thinks so, or wants it to be true?

anyway. I'm single, not really seeing anybody, and I do think he likes me, he looks a lot. It's cute, really. But he's shy as hell.Maybe I scare him? Lol.

seriously, when did it become this freaking hard?


I just want some attention, a few dates maybe, a little um, exercise...

oyi. I need help. lol.


How do I get a shy one to come around?

Make him come around. You let him know the deal. single woman that knows what she wants and tells it like it is. very sexy. You make the move. nothing wrong with that.